Many a people fell like marking their presence wherever they go and always fail trying to do so. Read on to know the various tricks of grabbing the attention of the crowd around you.
Many of my friends feel like becoming a man who lightens up the surrounding wherever he goes, a man who is always adored with bells and whistles. But they all fail trying to do so. The reason is because they never notice the things around them. They just blindly shoot an arrow in any direction and yet expect it to pierce the bull’s eye. And, as we all know, the chances of such a spear hitting the bull’s eye are way too low. Well, then how do we find out the solution to the problem at hand?
The solution is quite simple. You need to know ‘what kind of people’ are adored in which surroundings. Just look around. You just need to notice things. Say for example that you are going to a concert hall where a very famous musician is coming to give a show. Keep in mind that people are here to see the musician not you. So, you need not dress up in a very elaborate manner (like a groom at his wedding or something like that). I would suggest anything from a Kurta to a Shervani for such an occasion. The reason is quite simple- “it marks your presence”. The other advantage of this dress is that it matches the climate of the place you are going to- a concert hall. Another thing to keep in mind is- keep it simple and clean. People like simple guys. If you wear very complex and fashion filled dresses you will start exhibiting “inferiority complex”. The reason is that a complex dress actually makes you feel that you are something different and hence you will not mingle with the crowd or rather it might work the other way round too. So wear something very simple which shall suit you very well. Do not be too serious at occasions like- music concerts, marriage ceremony, etc. this will separate you from the attention of the crowd and you will be pushed away to some corner of the hall like a palanquin or something. Instead mingle with the people around you and have a little conversation with a smile on your face. A smile actually shows that you are interested in the climate around you. Also, good smiles grab the attention of the crowd much easily as compared to a good conversation. Always speak as less as possible. Speak only as much as is necessary during that particular instant. Else maintain silence and observe your surroundings. Just noticing things around you will teach you how to behave during that particular occasion.
In case of an interview, your dress code is of prime importance. In interviews looking good is a very important thing. Many a people judge you on the basis of your dress code during an interview. A person with a neat and clean dress code with hairs cut short and not trying to act too smart is always adored by the interviewers. Wear a simple shirt with a simple pant which is ironed well and looks very clean. In this situation you need to have a good taste of color combinations. Go for contrast colors. They are always the best. I would suggest a white shirt with a preferably dark pant. This combination works just fine with any person. As for the tie, wear a dark one. Avoid colorful ties. Some people hate some colors a lot. You might get disqualified if your tie’s color does not soothe the mind of the interviewer. Do not go for ties with designs on them. They look good in marriages, not here. When it comes to a formal wear avoid fashionable stuff as far as possible. Say a big no to clothes with designs on them at least till you come out of the interview hall. Shave yourself properly and apply a good cream to your face so that your skin does not look dry. Do not apply too much of make up. This will also spoil the show. Just keep in mind that your dress should tell the interviewer that you are a professional who is fit for the post which is vacant. If you are applying for the post of an engineer you should look like an engineer and not like a modern jockey or something funnier like a clown or anything likewise.
The above two cases were just an example to show how you can grab the attention of the crowd around you without much effort. Just think of the place you will be going to and dress up accordingly. Also, wherever you go, keep in mind that you are not a lunatic. So do not go on speaking unnecessary things which will bore the people around you. Very few people have the talent of converting every sentence into a laugh buster. If your sense of humor is not so good wait for a chance and crack a joke at the right time. If you are well talented in making people burst into laughter with your comments carry on. You will always be wanted to fill up the post of a jockey or a funny host whenever your friends plan to go out for a treat or a picnic. And undoubtedly you will be the star of the show. Have a nice day !!!!!!
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