We all search for someone in our lives. But, we never know why we do it. The team of cool guys reaches for the coolest guys around and tries to search for the answer.
We all try to find someone among the opposite sex to have personal relationships with. But, most of us never know why we do it. I took a gang of friends and reached out for all the Romeos in our college asking them about their views and opinions on this topic. At around six o clock in the evening I and my friends collected all the facts and started discussing the topic in more detail.
Take any college, and you will find that the issues of love are waiting to be spread out like the Swine Flu viruses. A cool guy in my class who was rejected by the girl he loves the most says: “its not that I want to enjoy a few moments in privacy with her. Its just that I feel like being with her, I feel like seeing her again and again. I do not remember even one single moment in my life (since I’ve seen her) when I could think about her and yet did not end up doing so. I think about her whenever I can.” Confused by the reply we asked him, “don’t you think that it is a huge waste of time?” Being a poet he slowly laughed and raised his eyes. He said, “What do you do when you are free?” I said, “I just play some music or see any movie.” To which the cool guy questioned, “Why?” I replied, “Because it gives me peace. Whenever I listen to songs I do not feel the pace with which the time passes by.” He smiled and said, “it’s the same with me. Whenever I think about her, I don’t feel the punch of the time passing by. I feel very happy the moment I think about her, though I would be even happier if I could just spend a few moments just peeping into her beautiful watery eyes. Such a thought itself makes me so relaxed and joyful.”
Mark my words the above said guy is really a very cool lover. He showed me the poems he had written on her. I was just shocked to see those cool words weaved together so beautifully as to outstand the beauty of the grandest necklaces around. His poems made me feel as if he had found a heaven for himself within that girl. Even I had never noticed the beauty of the girl as it was laid out in his cool poems. He had written everything about the girl in pin point detail in such a wonderful manner that I stayed stunned for a few moments.
Our team later advanced to another guy who had a girlfriend. When asked for the reason to fall in love he replied, “To me it’s just a matter of passing my lonely time with some girl. I used to chat with her on the mobile during late nights. One day we both were in a romantic mood. She threw in a few messages with a hint of the special feelings she had for me. I was anyhow searching for someone to spend time with. So I just opened my mouth wide open like a crocodile and welcomed the fish which was ready to walk in.” We asked him if he had ever praised her. He answered in the affirmative. We asked him to describe her beauty in a few words and he went on with some filthy filmy dialogues which were more of a headache than a poem. One thing was quite sure. He did not love the girl. He just went on with the turns that his life took. He was never ever serious about the girl. He had just accepted her just because he wanted a girlfriend no matter who she was or what she was. Beware of such people if you are someone who believes in true love. If you want a play boy such people are just the sort of easy go lucky guys you want.
Now the actual question stood in front of us. What do cool guys usually want? Generally those guys who are very hard working need someone to soothe their minds. These guys do not take girls seriously unless they are married to them. They are just a bit curious to speak a few sweet things with a girl so as to lose the booze which makes their brains ache quite too often. Such people are bothered about only one thing in their lives: success! To reach out for the ladder to success they will use anybody who comes their way. Whereas, guys who are a bit emotional are much interested in finding a person who can tweak their moods in tougher times. These guys have a very different nature and get hurt very easily. Whenever they are hurt, their wounds can be healed very effectively by a very compassionate partner. Hence such guys always try to find someone who will give them a shoulder the moment they feel like crying. Such guys usually lack a feeling of self confidence and often find themselves entangled in the hurricanes of battlefield. If such people get the exact person they are searching for, they can possibly conquer the whole world for the happiness of their lover; these cool guys are usually triggered with the drug of love. The other category is the category of crazy lovers who are fanatically crazy about a girl. They can be obsessed by any quality of the feminine. Often such people are good poets. They think about their loved ones all the time and find happiness in the company of their partners. To such guys, success, money and power look like the dust of one’s feet. If their wife is an admirer of good art she will always find happiness in this out and out romantic Romeo. If these people are attracted by the physique of any girl they will go to the extremes of cutting their hands and writing letters with their blood in order to denote their love. They are least bothered about fame and hence, if a girl who is more of the ‘flamboyant’ and ‘flirting for fun’ type of character accepts such a boy in her life will suffer a lot. Also girls who dream of big fortunes and fames shall keep out of the reach of such people.
In our survey we came across one more cool guy who had a very good taste: in terms of rating the physique of ‘lust arousing chicks’, but was found loving a girl who had absolutely zero physical appeal. Though she was slim there were no signs of beauty or culture in her physique or face. When asked why he opted for such a girl he replies, “I have a good taste in the field of choosing exorbitantly attractive chicks having a great sexual appeal in their lifestyles, yet I chose to have a dull looking girl. The reason is, because, I believe that hot looking chicks are usually non-virgins! And I hate the idea of having a lover who had been used by someone else before me.” I wasn’t surprised to find out that he could bear the idea of eating with somebody else in the same plate but he could not bear the idea of seeing his lover being emotionally or physically interacting with some other guy. Leave alone the matter of seeing such a thing, the way he was speaking it was clearly visible that he could not even bear hearing of such a fact from somebody else. Such guys usually breakup very easily with their lovers the moment they doubt the loyalty of their partners. The surprising fact was that this girl was actually his second lover (not leaving aside the fact that the girl also had an ex-boyfriend). These people are also very ‘trying to find fault with the other’ type. They are very loyal to their lovers and expect the same response from the other end. But as nature has it, it is often found that it is very difficult to lead a peaceful life with such a person no matter how faithful you are with him/her. Some among them might sustain the pain for quite a while till things become quite clear. But if they come to know that their doubt has turned out to be true they may kill anyone in their way with the flames of their anger. Choose such a guy only if you think you can convince him in such delicate matters. These people believe in leading a very faithful marital life. If they get the sort of warm and affectionate wife they yearn for, they can taste the fruit of success very easily provided their loved one stays by their side all the time.
Now I will speak of a very different category of cool guys. In fact, this is my own case too. Guys like me who like to give good advice to others, usually try to find a mate who has a good conscience rooted deeply in the bottom of their hearts. I personally prefer those girls who believe in things like culture and benevolence. To me the physical beauty does not appeal much. Instead I prefer going for someone who has a warm heart like that of a mother. Such girls have a very strong attitude towards their life. They will accept almost anything that comes their way. They always stand by the side of their spouses and smile even in the most troubled situations. Such girls always have a smile on their face because they believe that this smile of theirs can make the most difficult times seem like a bubble in the water which vanishes God knows where if faced with a brave heart. These girls actually strengthen the members of their family. Their dressing sense is very sensible. They will never wear tight or transparent clothes so as to expose their bodies and get all the eyes turning towards their private body parts. These girls are usually fat and hence rejected by males on the grounds of their lacking of a good physical structure. The reason why these girls look so plain is because they are least bothered about getting a slick and slim body which will make the passersby go all wet and wild. Instead they are always focused on seeing their close ones happy forever and forever. Such girls are so plain that many a time their inner beauty goes unnoticed and hence they never get a boyfriend in their youth. They do not even opt for an affair in their life. The boys who look out for such girls are nothing different either. Such pairs are usually happy with the lifestyles of middle-class people. These girls are often regarded as Gajagamini in the scriptures of ancient India. ‘Gaja’ means elephant. Thus the term denotes a girl with elephant like characteristics. They never rush things. They are plain, simple and fat yet very beautiful to look at. They are very good listeners and have very sharp ears. The eyes of elephant are usually designed in such a manner that they magnify the size of the objects they see. Thus such people always give respect to the people around them as they can see the greatness of the person standing in front of them. They are very humble and sweet personalities. Their smiles make the environment lively. They love the beauties of nature. They like hanging around with their spouses and have a very caring attitude. They like to help good people. They are often found giving donations to institutions having a good motto. They are innocent and speak very sweet words to soothe the minds of their loved ones.
So decide the category you belong to and watch out for your minus points if any. Always try to reduce your mistakes. That’s what life is about. Rectify your mistakes and try to become the cool guy you had dreamed of.
Have a cool day !!!!!!!!!!!!!
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